Programs — The Sacred Kings

Our Sacred Offerings

There is a path here for every man — wherever he is starting from. Go as deep as you are ready for.

On Enrollment

Showing Up Is How It Starts

All paid offerings are application-based. There is no open checkout. We review every applicant personally. The men who get the most from this work are the ones who have already been showing up — in the free community, at open events, engaging with our content.

"We are not looking for men who like the idea of this work.
We are looking for men who are already doing it."

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Active Membership — The Weekly Brotherhood
Ongoing Group · Weekly Live Sessions · Private Portal Community

The Heart of Everything We Do

The Brotherhood That Holds You

Most coaching programs end. The Sacred Kings brotherhood doesn't. It is a living container that deepens the longer you're in it — because the most important thing that happens here isn't the sessions. It's the relationship between the men who keep showing up.

Every month follows the Sacred Kings Arc™ — a four-step cycle moving through intention, shadow work, activation, and integration. Three themes rotate: Sacred Intimacy, Sacred Livelihood, and Sacred Kingdom — covering relationships, purpose, and legacy in a continuous, deepening cycle.

This is not a group you join and consume from a distance. It is a room full of men who know you — and hold you to who you said you wanted to be.

"The men who stay don't stay because it's easy. They stay because nothing else has come close."

What Membership Includes

  • Weekly live sessions — every Tuesday, 90 minutes on Zoom
  • All sessions recorded and accessible in the private portal community
  • Private portal community — members only, not publicly linked
  • Daily WhatsApp brotherhood channel for connection between sessions
  • Personal welcome call with Shiva J when you join
  • Medicine Bag resource library — including the 5-Phase King's Gaze meditation
  • Priority access to coaching programs and future offerings
  • Eligibility for the Integrity Certification (by invitation)

Membership Details

Format
Weekly live group sessions via Zoom
Frequency
Every Tuesday · 90 minutes
Group size
12–18 men per group
Commitment
6-month minimum
Investment
Monthly — shared on application
Your rate
Locked permanently for active members
Bonus
$27 Open Event credit toward first month

"This is not a casual subscription. The men in this room are building something together. That requires consistency and skin in the game."

Apply for Membership Attend the Open Event First — $27
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MVP Program — Mission, Vision & Purpose
9-Week Private Coaching Container · Application Only

Program Details

Format
Private 1:1 coaching container
Duration
9 weeks
Sessions
Weekly 1:1 calls with Shiva J via Zoom
Investment
Shared on application
Enrollment
Application only
Bonus
Brotherhood membership included for non-members who enroll
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9-Week Private Coaching Container

Stop Drifting. Start Leading From Clarity.

Most men are busy. Very few men are on purpose.

The MVP Program is a private 1:1 coaching container — a structured, held journey into the three questions that define a man's life: What is my Mission? What is my Vision? What is my Purpose? Not the rehearsed answers. The real ones — the ones that have been waiting underneath the noise.

Over 9 weeks of direct 1:1 work with Shiva J, you will move through a guided process designed to cut through the performance, the conditioning, and the inherited expectations — and find the signal underneath. This is the work men describe as the turning point. Not because it gives them answers, but because it gives them the right questions and the tools to actually live them.

What You'll Work Through

  • Clarifying your core values and what you actually stand for
  • Identifying the gap between the man you are and the man you came here to be
  • Building a Mission Statement that is lived, not laminated
  • Developing a Vision that is specific, honest, and yours — not inherited
  • Anchoring a Purpose that goes beyond achievement into genuine meaning
  • Creating accountability structures that keep you moving when motivation runs out
This is for you if...
  • You feel the pull but can't name what toward
  • Achievement hasn't delivered what you thought it would
  • You're at a career, relationship, or identity inflection point
  • You're already doing well and want to do what you were built for
Not right for you if...
  • You want a business strategy or career coaching program
  • You're looking for quick answers rather than deep clarity
  • You're not willing to examine the assumptions driving your life
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Sex, Intimacy & Love Coaching
Private Coaching · Application Only · This is not technique. It is transformation.

Private Coaching

Transform How You Show Up In Love

Most men have never been taught how to be truly intimate. They have been given performance expectations, cultural scripts, and silence where real education should have been.

This is not pickup artistry. It is not seduction training. It is not about getting more of what you want from others.

It is about healing the places where men most often cause harm — not from malice, but from unconsciousness. From wounds they never examined. From patterns they inherited and never questioned.

Shiva J brings a rare combination to this work: years of training in tantra and sacred sexuality, a background in women's safety and consent education, and the full ethical framework of The Sacred Kings. This is not a space for fantasy. It is a space for truth.

What We Explore

  • Consent as a living practice — not a legal checkbox
  • The relationship between power, desire, and vulnerability
  • Healing the wounds that show up as shutdown, aggression, or compulsion
  • Building emotional availability and the capacity for real intimacy
  • The intersection of sexuality and spiritual practice
  • Being in right relationship with your own body and desire
  • How to be fully present with a partner — not performing, not managing, but actually there

Program Details

Format
Private 1:1 coaching container
Investment
Shared on application
Enrollment
Application only
Bonus
Brotherhood membership included for non-members who enroll

This coaching is for men who sense that something in their intimate life is not working — and are honest enough to look at their own role in that.

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The Sovereign Man
12-Week 1:1 Archetypal Initiation · Application Only

Program Details

Format
12 × 90-min private 1:1 sessions
Duration
12 weeks
Phases
Warrior · Lover · Magician · King
Each phase
Signature · Shadow Work · Embodiment Breathwork
Closes with
The Coronation Ceremony — Week 12
Between sessions
Integration journal prompts + embodied practices
Investment
Shared on application
Enrollment
Application only — prior engagement reviewed

"The man who completes this initiation is not the man who enrolled. That is the only measure that matters."

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12-Week 1:1 Private Initiation

An Initiation. Not a Course.

Most men have read the books, done the therapy, and still feel like something essential is missing. Not because they haven't worked hard enough — but because no one has ever walked them through an actual initiation.

The Sovereign Man is a private 1:1 archetypal journey through the Warrior, Lover, Magician, and King — a ceremonial deep dive into the four forces shaping every man's life. Through shadow work, somatic breathwork, and ceremonial session structure, you won't just understand who you're meant to be. You'll feel it in your bones.

Each phase moves through the same three-session arc: Name it. Face its shadow. Embody it. The sequence is intentional. The Warrior builds the spine. The Lover reclaims the heart. The Magician claims the vision. The King integrates everything that came before.

The Four Phases — Click to Explore

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The Warrior
Weeks 1–3 · Boundaries · Discipline · Fierce Protection

The Warrior comes first — because a man needs his spine before he can open his heart.

Session 1 — Signature
The Warrior's Threshold
You name what you have been tolerating — in your relationships, your work, and with yourself. The session closes with your Sacred NO spoken aloud and witnessed.
Session 2 — Shadow Work
The Inner Saboteur
Meet the part of you that breaks your own agreements, destroys what you're building. You leave knowing your saboteur by name — and what to say when he shows up.
Session 3 — Embodiment
Battle Breath
Somatic breathwork that rewires the nervous system from reactive to responsive — from the man who gets triggered to the man who can hold his ground.
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The Lover
Weeks 4–6 · Sacred Desire · Emotional Aliveness · Erotic Intelligence

The Lover comes second — because desire and emotional aliveness must be reclaimed before vision can be authentic.

Session 4 — Signature
Naming True Desire
You name your actual desires — erotic, creative, relational, existential — without apology or performance. For many men, the most frightening session of the program.
Session 5 — Shadow Work
The Addict & The Impotent Lover
The two shadow faces: the Addict who consumes compulsively, and the Impotent Lover who has shut down feeling entirely. You identify which shadow is dominant — and why.
Session 6 — Embodiment
Erotic Breath
Heart-Pelvis integration breathwork that reconnects you to your own aliveness below the neck. Men describe feeling awake in their bodies for the first time in years.
The Magician
Weeks 7–9 · Vision · Creation · Sovereign Intelligence

The Magician comes third — because sovereign intelligence can only emerge from an embodied, feeling man.

Session 7 — Signature
The Magician's Vision
You claim the vision you have been too afraid to name out loud. Written in present tense, as if already true. Spoken aloud. Witnessed.
Session 8 — Shadow Work
The Manipulator & The Naïve Fool
The Magician's shadow wears the mask of intelligence. The Manipulator uses knowledge to control. The Naïve Fool believes without discerning. You identify where each operates in your life.
Session 9 — Embodiment
Manifestation Breath
Breathwork that moves you from planning your vision to inhabiting it. The nervous system brought into coherence with the claimed vision — through somatic anchoring, not affirmation.
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The King
Weeks 10–12 · Integration · Leadership · Crowned Sovereignty

The King comes last — because integration and sovereignty are claimed, not taught. They emerge from the work that precedes them.

Session 10 — Signature
Claiming the Throne
You take stock of what has shifted since Week 1 — specifically, concretely, in your body, your relationships, your leadership. You articulate what you are now willing to protect and what you are claiming as yours.
Session 11 — Shadow Work
The Tyrant & The Weakling
The King's shadow in both directions: the Tyrant who controls from fear of losing power, and the Weakling who abdicates responsibility. You identify where each shows up — and practice the King's response.
Session 12 — The Coronation Ceremony
Week 12 is not a session. It is a ceremony.
All three breath practices woven together. A letter written to the man you were in Week 1, read aloud from the man you are now. The facilitator witnesses. The initiation is complete.
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The Integrity Certification
Accountability Framework for Transformational Men · By Invitation Only

By Invitation Only

The Accountability the Industry Has Been Missing

There are men who say they operate with integrity. And there are men who can prove it.

The Sacred Kings Integrity Certification is a structured accountability framework for men doing transformational work in the world — coaches, facilitators, men's work leaders, sacred sexuality practitioners. It is not a course you take and forget. It is a living commitment.

It exists because the coaching, men's work, and sacred sexuality industries operate without real accountability infrastructure. No standards. No oversight. No recourse when harm occurs. We built the infrastructure.

  • A signed Code of Conduct — specific, enforceable standards of practice
  • Oversight by an independent Accountability Pod and forming Integrity Council
  • A formal review process for complaints — with real consequences
  • An Integrity Vow — a public commitment to these standards
  • A Public Accountability Statement — visible to clients
  • Quarterly Integrity Circles — ongoing peer accountability
  • Annual renewal — certification is earned again, not assumed
  • The Integrity Certified badge for use on your professional profiles

Certification Details

Enrollment
By invitation only
Prerequisite
Active Sacred Kings community membership
Oversight
Independent Accountability Pod + Integrity Council
Renewal
Annual — certification is re-earned, not assumed
Note
Not a professional license or therapeutic credential

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What the Men Say

Real Transformations

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I was skeptical about online men's groups. This isn't touchy-feely. It's precision work with men who are serious about growth. The facilitation is unlike anything I've experienced.

Miguel · Age 28 · Software Engineer
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I came in struggling with work stress and a stagnant relationship. Six months later, I got promoted and my partner says I'm a completely different man. Having brothers who hold you accountable changes everything.

Tom · Age 34 · Marketing Manager
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